Last flings and the terrible damage it has caused marriages today cannot be overlooked. It was very common in the western world but today it’s a worldwide thing.
People see last flings as a parting gift to their Ex, but in reality, there is never a last fling. If it happened once, it’s definitely going to happen again along the line.
Sometimes, even when both parties are happily married, they still find themselves in a continuous fling of adultery which has led to broken homes.
Nigerian man (identity withheld) narrates how he had a last with his Ex-girlfriend, few weeks to her marriage and that even though they are both married now, they still find themselves in the act.
Earlier last month (March), she brought her wedding invitation card with a bottle of wine to my office to inform me that she’s getting married. I was so happy for her, at least she finally found someone she loves.
We talked a lot about the past and popped the wine in celebration. As we giggled and laughed over a lot of things, without even knowing what I was doing, I grabbed her, perked her lips, and went back to my seat. I couldn’t remember what else we discussed after that small touch of lips, but we ended up having a quick one on my desk.
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I felt guilty and since then, I’ve been trying to forget about everything that happened, and I kept reminding myself that she was in my past, and besides, she will be getting married a week after Easter.
Yesterday, she came back again. This time, to my house. She said that she came to inform me that the wedding had been postponed until further notice.
I didn’t want anything silly to happen again, so I was trying to be straight forward and mean with her before she asked what I cooked. Next thing, she started cooking beans and yam. I tried reminding her that we are not in a relationship, then she told me clearly that after the night together, if I don’t want her again, then it would be her last night ever in my house.
Being that I have nothing to gain or lose, I kept quiet and enjoyed the night and still hoping for more.
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I am not regretting anything here though.
Long Distance, and let me say “poverty”, made her leave me those days for someone richer. And she had been into series of relationships after separating from me, but we were always in touch. At times, we stumble and find ourselves deep inside ourselves again even when we were into serious relationships. We never really stopped.
And I don’t think we may stop any time soon, even after we both got married.
We have this thing together that keeps attracting us together, yet we don’t just want to be together in a relationship again.